And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. Genesis 2:21-22
On the 12 November 2008 a brother received the following prophetic word;
"The sons of God have become the sons of man, they are the only ones that know who they are".
Of course we didn’t understand the meaning of this word and later we did what we supposed to do when a prophetic word or a dream is received; we approached to YESHUA in prayer asking Him for interpretation. We know that it is only Elohim (God) that can give the interpretation.
Then later, YESHUA in His faithfulness gave me the interpretation. He showed me … (I feel sadness in the spirit about this while I’m typing), He showed me that He has a wonderful marriage plan for a son of Elohim, but because of ignorance and/or disobedience many or even most of His sons have married the wrong people, and by doing that they became one flesh with daughters of man therefore “they have become the sons of men”.
Therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife and they shall become one flesh.
(Genesis 2:24 LITV)
The issue about marriage is more important than what we have been taught, and it has eternal effects, it is time for this mystery to be better understood by the house of faith.
Marriage is not a worldly thing; it is a divine plan from the Ruler YESHUA. Marriage is a vow for each person involved and a covenant between two, it is a covenant established by Elohim from creation that men and woman submit to when they marry. This covenant is not established by religion neither by a man but by the two people involved. And because this covenant was created by Elohim it cannot be established outside His presence, it is His creation and cannot be broken by men.
Therefore this is an eternal covenant, we do not become divorced when we die, dear brethren blessed are those that can believe this. This is a mystery, those that are married here according to Elohim’s Will and stay faithful between them and with YESHUA, they will be blessed for eternity together and those that are married here outside the will of Elohim and are faithful will also be blessed even for eternity but not in the same level that a union planed by YESHUA.
The revelation is that the marriage covenant cannot be destroyed even by death, because the Lord brings eternal life.
Seek ye out of the book of the LORD, and read: no one of these shall fail, none shall want her mate: for my mouth it hath commanded, and His Spirit it hath gathered them.
I’m certain in YESHUA that those that keep single for the sake of devotion to YESHUA will receive for eternity something the same as glorious or better than those with a faithful marriage, don’t be concerned if you are single with YESHUA. But this is the Lord’s plan; it is His Ruach/Spirit that must lead us if we want to fulfill YESHUA’s Will in this issue and in all issues.
Marrying, and giving in marriage
YESHUA showed me that what is related in Genesis six before “the flood” is only a prophetic sign of what is happening in the end times before the “Day of the Lord”.
And it came about that men began to multiply on the face of the earth, and daughters were born to them. The sons of God saw the daughters of men, that they were good, and they took wives for themselves from all those whom they chose.
(Genesis 6:1-2 LITV)
The Scriptures in the original language are very clear (but not absolute) about the difference between the “sons of Elohim” (also called “sons of Adam”) and “the sons of men” this was twisted with the translation to almost every language, maybe for the sake of fitting theology or humanism. These two groups are not the same according to what Elohim said in the Scriptures whether we like it or not, I mention this only because it is related with marriage.
Psalms 49 in Hebrew it says.
… Hear this, all peoples, give ear, all those living in the world, even “sons of Adam” even “sons of man” …
(Psalms 49:1b-2a literal)
Often the Scriptures define and refer to these two groups as different.
YESHUA calls Himself the Son of Adam, in the Aramaic original language that He was speaking, not the “Son of Man” like wrongly translated to the Greek and from the Greek to other languages. It is because there is a difference but it is not physical is about the seed. The Lord intends for the sons of Adam (this is the sons of Elohim) to marry only people from the same seed. This is not rejection to any group, every person can be saved, it is simply His plan, and it is a good plan because He is good.
YESHUA says just like it was before the flood, it will be again before the end of the age, as we read.
For as they were in the days before the flood: eating, and drinking, marrying, and giving in marriage, until the day when Noah went into the ark.
(Matthew 24:38 LITV)
Apparently there is nothing wrong in marrying and giving in marriage but we know there was something wrong before the flood and also before the Day of The Lord, could it be possible that these marriages and giving in marriage can become a sin?
The Scriptures talk about forbidden marriages in the Torah begging from the sons of Elohim, then the sons of Israel and then later the believers in YESHUA. In Leviticus 18 for example we see some of the specific instructions about what people cannot marry, that’s quite obvious for us, but there is also in the Scriptures the commandment for Israel to not get married with the daughters of the nations, that maybe not very obvious to us but this can have a spiritual application today and is not about getting married only with a “believer”. This is about getting married with the right person and not with the wrong one.
In Numbers 25 we see when the sons of Israel start to fornicate with the daughters of Moab by the counsel of Balaam to Balak the king of Moab (Numbers 31:16).
Now you may say that this has nothing to do with us today but I have a surprise for you, in Revelations 2:12-17 we have a prophetic “end times” message to the congregation in Pergamo and it says.
But I have a few things against you, that you have there those holding the teachings of Balaam, who taught Balak to throw a stumbling-block before the sons of Israel, to eat idol sacrifices, and to commit fornication.
(Revelation 2:14 LITV)
This verse show’s us that the teaching’s of Balaam are imparted today, for as strange as that is it can look like, this is a truth and we need to know what in the truth.
According to this, the teachings of Balaam are inside the house of the faith and are related with marriage, wrong marriages. Let’s hear what the Spirit is saying about marriage and we will be able to identify what are the wrong teachings about marriage. If we married the wrong mate we will be fornicating (this is not the same sin of fornication, is fornication like called when worshiping idols), that’s the teaching of Balaam to marry the wrong mate (we will not talk about eating idol sacrifices in this message).
I warn you that we need to be willing to unlearn what we have learn and receive new wine.
Adam was put to sleep and Yah took one of his ribs and created a perfect woman for him, pay attention that it was only one rib, not many. There is a spiritual meaning in this. YESHUA showed me that, spiritually speaking, the right match for a son of Elohim is the one that was taken from his rib. This means that there is only one woman for one son of Elohim, the one that was created by Elohim from him and for him (if it was). There must be the right “daughter of Elohim”, if you let me call her in that way, for a “son of Elohim”.
There is no commandment in Torah that instructs men to have multiple wives or woman, pay attention of this. Ishmael was not the Will of Elohim! He may bless Ishmael for His faithfulness to Abraham his father. This is similar to what happened to Yaakov, it wasn’t the Will of Elohim.
My dear brethren this is a mystery.
Therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife and they shall become one flesh.
(Genesis 2:24 LITV)
The Lord has His plan, if we submit to His plan we will find our perfect match. When brethren ask me about marriage I always answer with this; YESHUA is the matchmaker you need to receive from YESHUA supernatural instructions or confirmation to get married, if not, don’t get married. This will always work.
YESHUA is more interested than you in bringing you your mate. Please proclaim and recognize YESHUA as your matchmaker if this is applicable to you and let Him arrange the meeting.
But sadly, often due to wrong understanding about what involves marriage the Lord holds the right mate away, because wrong understanding of marriage can stop somebody of answering his call, this can happen until we get the understanding. We need to unlearn what we learn from religion and humanism about marriage and what we learn from society and man’s laws, and learn from the Ruach HaKodesh what is the order and definition of marriage.
Now let’s see if there are different levels of authority established by Elohim in marriage.
Yah said to Eve …
… and your desire shall be toward your husband; and he shall rule over you.
Later in the book of Numbers 30:1-16 we read, when talking about vows, that the husband has the authority to make null any vow that the wife or daughter does (Including the vow of marriage in rebellion for example ).
Elohim does not give the option for a woman to divorce a man and there are no instructions about the spirit of jealousy attacking a woman (Numbers 5:14).
Spiritually speaking there is a clear difference between man and woman in marriage.
As we can see the position of a woman in a marriage established by Elohim, it is more like a servant position. Now if we think this is a bad position, we don’t understand what the Kingdom of Elohim is about, because YESHUA said.
But the greater of you shall be your servant.
(Matthew 23:11 LITV)
According to the Scriptures women have a greater calling then men!
Restored Men and Woman
There was a change in this, the position of the woman was established by Elohim when He judged woman after the disobedience in the Garden of Eden, but we know YESHUA came to redeem, YESHUA didn’t come to change what was established in the Torah but to give the real meaning.
YESHUA restored men and woman by His work, even the man is still the one with more authority in a marriage but woman, for example, can sometimes play a role in the Ruach HaKodesh/Holy Spirit in a way that will not be understood by the letter, in those cases men need to submit. Wives and daughters can be used by YESHUA to give prophetic words and words of understanding, even to shepherd a family, man needs to submit when YESHUA talking through a woman. That’s the redeemed woman and the redeemed man.
Keep yourself like you where when the Lord called you
This must be the tendency in the house of faith, from the moment we repent and ask for forgiveness and YESHUA forgives us we need to see the future not the past. But still the Ruach HaKodesh/Holy Spirit must lead us, so then we don’t established formulas.
According to the Torah the marriage covenant cannot be easily broken, even Moses gave the option of divorce for man that was done only because of the hardened heart (Mathew19:7) and this option was only applicable just after the marriage (not years later). According to Torah it is not possible to divorce a woman that is faithful, and there are some cases that make it impossible to divorce a woman, yes you hear well, some marriages cannot be broken according to Torah for example if the man lays down with a woman before marriage (Deuteronomy 22:28,29. 22:19). These are spiritual laws the Torah is not a dry letter, Torah is Ruach, Torah is showing us our sins to be able to repent and not to perish for lack of knowledge. YESHUA have mercy on us.
And they said, Moses allowed "to write a bill of divorce, and to put away." (Deut. 24:1 only immediately after marriage!) And answering, YESHUA said to them, With respect to your hardheartedness he wrote this command to you. But from the beginning of creation "God made them male and female." Gen. 1:27 "Because of this, a man shall leave his father and mother and shall be joined to his wife, and the two shall be one flesh;" so that they no longer are two, but one flesh. Gen. 2:24 Therefore, what God yoked together, let not man put apart. And again, in the house His disciples asked Him about the same. And He said to them, Whoever may dismiss his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman puts away her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.
(Mark 10:4-12 LITV)
The Love of Elohim
Sadly we are in a world were the Love of Elohim needs to be restored, and it will be restored soon. Let’s try to define the Love of Elohim so then we will be able to see others kinds of love; the Love of Elohim is not a feeling, is not an emotion, the Love of Elohim is eternal, is powerful, is unconditional. The definition of love that society have for a couple to get married does not agree with the definition of the Love of Elohim. But what a marriage couple needs to endure is the Love of Elohim.
If the Love of Elohim is not manifested in a marriage established by Him, is simply because other spirit is residing and oppressing. The solution to this is simple and practical; repent and cast out the unclean spirit in the Name of YESHUA.
The enemy uses often spirit of love against single and married sons of Elohim to make them marry the wrong mate or fornicate thinking that the love or the lack of love is a justification for this; the spirit of love is an unclean spirit! Is a demon, beware! This demon will normally leave at one moment to try to destroy the marriage.
When I minister deliverance we can found the spirit of love attacking people and I need to cast it out.
The easiest way to keep us free is by obeying YESHUA in what He said in Mathew 10:8; “cast out demons”; this is, casting out any spirit that oppresses the Love of Elohim, for example anger, jealousy, egoism, lack of love, depression, division, spirit of love and others.
When YESHUA puts together two of His people, the Love of Elohim is the most powerful force that can keep them together and in victory!
The unity in marriage brings spiritual authority, therefore is very important to have a godly relation inside marriage in the Spirit and in the Truth, as more unity more spiritual authority. In YESHUA a family is really a community a “common unity”. If the members of a marriage will stay close to YESHUA they will be close to one each other.
It is very important to understand, receive and believe the restoration that YESHUA has planed for all those marriages and families that have been affected by division because one or more members answer to their called and follow YESHUA. This kind of division was mention by YESHUA in advance.
Father will be divided against son, and son against father; mother against daughter, and daughter against mother; mother-in-law against her bride, "and the bride against her mother-in-law." Mic. 7:6
(Luke 12:53 LITV)
But the same time wonderful promises of restoration are for those that receive YESHUA in their lives and follow Him. The Lord loves restoration He came to restore all what the enemy took from us (Joel 2:25).
The key factor here is time, we need to believe and endure in our faith, the times of the Lord can be long but the reward can be beyond imagination.
I pray you received all these revelations and start to drink from this stream of revelation from the Throne of YESHUA and when you will receive more, please send me an email teaching me more about marriage because I want to learn more.
Shalom peace to your household from the Prince of Peace.
For the Restoration of the bride of YESHUA.
In the Love of YESHUA.
Glory to the King of Glory, YESHUA Hamashiach.
The City of The King.
Note: Unless otherwise indicated the verses from the Bible are in "light blue" and taken from the translation called "The King James Version 1769", the literal translations are in "dark blue", the Name YESHUA has been kept in his original Hebrew form, the Greek word Christos has been kept as Messiah his real meaning.
(*) The expression "the LORD" has been kept also in his original form of four Hebrew letters, in English Yhuh where "U" is a "long U", this is the transliteration of the Hebrew letter "Vav", that YESHUA in His big mercy has revealed to us was the old way of pronouncing.
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