Marriage
And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he
slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and
brought her unto the man. Genesis
2:21-22
On the 12 November 2008 a brother received the following
prophetic word;
"The sons of God
have become the sons of man, they are the only ones that know who they
are".
Of course we didn’t understand the meaning of this word and later
we did what we supposed to do when a prophetic word or a dream is received; we
approached to YESHUA in prayer asking Him for interpretation. We know that it
is only Elohim (God) that can give the interpretation.
Then later, YESHUA in His faithfulness gave me the
interpretation. He showed me … (I feel sadness in the spirit about this while
I’m typing), He showed me that He has a wonderful marriage plan for a son of
Elohim, but because of ignorance and/or disobedience many or even most of His
sons have married the wrong people, and by doing that they became one flesh
with daughters of man therefore “they have become the sons of men”.
Therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall
cleave to his wife and they shall become one flesh.
(Genesis 2:24 LITV)
The issue about marriage is more important than what we have been
taught, and it has eternal effects, it is time for this mystery to be better
understood by the house of faith.
Marriage is not a worldly thing; it is a divine plan from the
Ruler YESHUA. Marriage is a vow for each person involved and a covenant between
two, it is a covenant established by Elohim from creation that men and woman
submit to when they marry. This covenant is not established by religion neither
by a man but by the two people involved. And because this covenant was created
by Elohim it cannot be established outside His presence, it is His creation and
cannot be broken by men.
Therefore this is an eternal covenant, we do not become divorced
when we die, dear brethren blessed are those that can believe this. This is a
mystery, those that are married here according to Elohim’s Will and stay
faithful between them and with YESHUA, they will be blessed for eternity
together and those that are married here outside the will of Elohim and are faithful
will also be blessed even for eternity but not in the same level that a union
planed by YESHUA.
The revelation is that the marriage covenant cannot be destroyed
even by death, because the Lord brings eternal life.
Seek ye out of the book of the LORD, and read: no one of these
shall fail, none shall want her mate: for my mouth it hath commanded, and His
Spirit it hath gathered them.
(Isaiah 34:16)
I’m certain in YESHUA that those that keep single for the sake of
devotion to YESHUA will receive for eternity something the same as glorious or
better than those with a faithful marriage, don’t be concerned if you are
single with YESHUA. But this is the Lord’s plan; it is His Ruach/Spirit that must
lead us if we want to fulfill YESHUA’s Will in this issue and in all issues.
Marrying, and giving in marriage
YESHUA showed me that what is related in Genesis six before “the
flood” is only a prophetic sign of what is happening in the end times before
the “Day of the Lord”.
And it came about that men began to multiply on the face of the
earth, and daughters were born to them. The sons of God saw the daughters of
men, that they were good, and they took wives for themselves from all those
whom they chose.
(Genesis 6:1-2 LITV)
The Scriptures in the original language are very clear (but not
absolute) about the difference between the “sons of Elohim” (also called “sons
of Adam”) and “the sons of men” this was twisted with the translation to almost
every language, maybe for the sake of fitting theology or humanism. These two
groups are not the same according to what Elohim said in the Scriptures whether
we like it or not, I mention this only because it is related with marriage.
Psalms 49 in Hebrew it says.
… Hear this, all peoples, give ear, all those living in the world,
even “sons of Adam” even “sons of man” …
(Psalms 49:1b-2a literal)
Often the Scriptures define and refer to these two groups as
different.
YESHUA calls Himself the Son of Adam, in the Aramaic original
language that He was speaking, not the “Son of Man” like wrongly translated to
the Greek and from the Greek to other languages. It is because there is a
difference but it is not physical is about the seed. The Lord intends for the
sons of Adam (this is the sons of Elohim) to marry only people from the same
seed. This is not rejection to any group, every person can be saved, it is
simply His plan, and it is a good plan because He is good.
YESHUA says just like it was before the flood, it will be again
before the end of the age, as we read.
For as they were in the days before the flood: eating, and
drinking, marrying, and giving in marriage, until the day when
Noah went into the ark.
(Matthew 24:38 LITV)
Apparently there is nothing wrong in marrying and giving in
marriage but we know there was something wrong before the flood and also before
the Day of The Lord, could it be possible that these marriages and giving in
marriage can become a sin?
Forbidden marriages
The Scriptures talk about forbidden marriages in the Torah begging
from the sons of Elohim, then the sons of Israel and then later the believers
in YESHUA. In Leviticus 18 for example we see some of the specific instructions
about what people cannot marry, that’s quite obvious for us, but there is also
in the Scriptures the commandment for Israel to not get married with the
daughters of the nations, that maybe not very obvious to us but this can have a
spiritual application today and is not about getting married only with a “believer”.
This is about getting married with the right person and not with the wrong one.
In Numbers 25 we see when the sons of Israel start to fornicate
with the daughters of Moab by the counsel of Balaam to Balak the king of Moab
(Numbers 31:16).
Now you may say that this has nothing to do with us today but I
have a surprise for you, in Revelations 2:12-17 we have a prophetic “end times”
message to the congregation in Pergamo and it says.
But I have a few things against you, that
you have there those holding the teachings of Balaam, who taught Balak
to throw a stumbling-block before the sons of Israel, to eat idol sacrifices,
and to commit fornication.
(Revelation 2:14 LITV)
This verse show’s us that the teaching’s of Balaam are imparted
today, for as strange as that is it can look like, this is a truth and we need
to know what in the truth.
According to this, the teachings of Balaam are inside the house
of the faith and are related with marriage, wrong marriages. Let’s hear what
the Spirit is saying about marriage and we will be able to identify what are
the wrong teachings about marriage. If we married the wrong mate we will be
fornicating (this is not the same sin of fornication, is fornication like called
when worshiping idols), that’s the teaching of Balaam to marry the wrong mate
(we will not talk about eating idol sacrifices in this message).
I warn you that we need to be willing to unlearn what we have
learn and receive new wine.
One Woman
Adam was put to sleep and Yah took one of his ribs and created a
perfect woman for him, pay attention that it was only one rib, not many. There
is a spiritual meaning in this. YESHUA showed me that, spiritually speaking,
the right match for a son of Elohim is the one that was taken from his rib.
This means that there is only one woman for one son of Elohim, the one that was
created by Elohim from him and for him (if it was). There must be the right
“daughter of Elohim”, if you let me call her in that way, for a “son of
Elohim”.
There is no commandment in Torah that instructs men to have
multiple wives or woman, pay attention of this. Ishmael was not the Will of
Elohim! He may bless Ishmael for His faithfulness to Abraham his father. This
is similar to what happened to Yaakov, it wasn’t the Will of Elohim.
My dear brethren this is a mystery.
Therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall
cleave to his wife and they shall become one flesh.
(Genesis 2:24 LITV)
The Lord has His plan, if we submit to His plan we will find our
perfect match. When brethren ask me about marriage I always answer with this;
YESHUA is the matchmaker you need to receive from YESHUA supernatural
instructions or confirmation to get married, if not, don’t get married. This
will always work.
YESHUA is more interested
than you in bringing you your mate. Please proclaim and recognize YESHUA as
your matchmaker if this is applicable to you and let Him arrange the meeting.
But sadly, often due to wrong understanding about what involves
marriage the Lord holds the right mate away, because wrong understanding of
marriage can stop somebody of answering his call, this can happen until we get
the understanding. We need to unlearn what we learn from religion and humanism
about marriage and what we learn from society and man’s laws, and learn from
the Ruach HaKodesh what is the order and definition of marriage.
Authority
Now let’s see if there are different levels of authority
established by Elohim in marriage.
Yah said to Eve …
… and your desire shall be toward your husband; and he shall rule
over you.
Genesis 3:16
Later in the book of Numbers 30:1-16 we read, when talking about
vows, that the husband has the authority to make null any vow that the wife or
daughter does (Including the vow of marriage in rebellion for example ).
Elohim does not give the option for a woman to divorce a man and there
are no instructions about the spirit of jealousy attacking a woman (Numbers
5:14).
Spiritually speaking there is a clear difference between man and
woman in marriage.
As we can see the position of a woman in a marriage established
by Elohim, it is more like a servant position. Now if we think this is a bad
position, we don’t understand what the Kingdom of Elohim is about, because
YESHUA said.
But the greater of you shall be your servant.
(Matthew 23:11 LITV)
According to the Scriptures women have a greater calling
then men!
Restored Men and Woman
There was a change in this, the position of the woman was
established by Elohim when He judged woman after the disobedience in the Garden
of Eden, but we know YESHUA came to redeem, YESHUA didn’t come to change what
was established in the Torah but to give the real meaning.
YESHUA restored men and woman by His work, even the man is still
the one with more authority in a marriage but woman, for example, can sometimes
play a role in the Ruach HaKodesh/Holy Spirit in a way that will not be
understood by the letter, in those cases men need to submit. Wives and
daughters can be used by YESHUA to give prophetic words and words of
understanding, even to shepherd a family, man needs to submit when YESHUA
talking through a woman. That’s the redeemed woman and the redeemed man.
Keep yourself like you where when the Lord called you
This must be the tendency in the house of faith, from the moment
we repent and ask for forgiveness and YESHUA forgives us we need to see the
future not the past. But still the Ruach HaKodesh/Holy Spirit must lead us, so
then we don’t established formulas.
According to the Torah the marriage covenant cannot be easily
broken, even Moses gave the option of divorce for man that was done only
because of the hardened heart (Mathew19:7) and this option was only applicable just
after the marriage (not years later). According to Torah it is not possible
to divorce a woman that is faithful, and there are some cases that make it
impossible to divorce a woman, yes you hear well, some marriages cannot be
broken according to Torah for example if the man lays down with a woman before
marriage (Deuteronomy 22:28,29. 22:19). These are spiritual laws the Torah is
not a dry letter, Torah is Ruach, Torah is showing us our sins to be able to
repent and not to perish for lack of knowledge. YESHUA have mercy on us.
And they said, Moses allowed "to write a bill of divorce, and
to put away." (Deut.
24:1 only immediately after marriage!) And answering, YESHUA said to them, With respect to your
hardheartedness he wrote this command to you. But from the beginning of
creation "God made them male and female." Gen. 1:27 "Because of this, a man shall leave
his father and mother and shall be joined to his wife, and the two shall be one
flesh;" so that they no longer are two, but one flesh. Gen. 2:24 Therefore, what God yoked together, let not man put apart.
And again, in the house His disciples asked Him about the same. And He said to
them, Whoever may dismiss his wife and marries another commits adultery against
her. And if a woman puts away her husband and marries another, she commits
adultery.
(Mark 10:4-12 LITV)
The Love of Elohim
Sadly we are in a world were the Love of Elohim needs to be
restored, and it will be restored soon. Let’s try to define the Love of Elohim
so then we will be able to see others kinds of love; the Love of Elohim is not
a feeling, is not an emotion, the Love of Elohim is eternal, is powerful, is
unconditional. The definition of love that society have for a couple to get
married does not agree with the definition of the Love of Elohim. But what a
marriage couple needs to endure is the Love of Elohim.
If the Love of Elohim is not manifested in a marriage established
by Him, is simply because other spirit is residing and oppressing. The solution
to this is simple and practical; repent and cast out the unclean spirit in the
Name of YESHUA.
The enemy uses often spirit of love against single and married
sons of Elohim to make them marry the wrong mate or fornicate thinking that the
love or the lack of love is a justification for this; the spirit of love is an
unclean spirit! Is a demon, beware! This demon will normally leave at one moment
to try to destroy the marriage.
When I minister deliverance we can found the spirit of love
attacking people and I need to cast it out.
The easiest way to keep us free is by obeying YESHUA in what He
said in Mathew 10:8; “cast out demons”; this is, casting out any spirit that
oppresses the Love of Elohim, for example anger, jealousy, egoism, lack of
love, depression, division, spirit of love and others.
When YESHUA puts together two of His people, the Love of Elohim
is the most powerful force that can keep them together and in victory!
Unity
The unity in marriage brings spiritual authority, therefore is
very important to have a godly relation inside marriage in the Spirit and in
the Truth, as more unity more spiritual authority. In YESHUA a family is really
a community a “common unity”. If the members of a marriage will stay close to
YESHUA they will be close to one each other.
Restauration
It is very important to understand, receive and believe the
restoration that YESHUA has planed for all those marriages and families that
have been affected by division because one or more members answer to their
called and follow YESHUA. This kind of division was mention by YESHUA in
advance.
Father will be divided against son, and son against father; mother
against daughter, and daughter against mother; mother-in-law against her bride,
"and the bride against her mother-in-law." Mic. 7:6
(Luke 12:53 LITV)
But the same time
wonderful promises of restoration are for those that receive YESHUA in their
lives and follow Him. The Lord loves restoration He came to restore all what
the enemy took from us (Joel 2:25).
The key factor here is time, we need to believe and endure in our
faith, the times of the Lord can be long but the reward can be beyond
imagination.
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I pray you received all these revelations and start to drink from
this stream of revelation from the Throne of YESHUA and when you will receive
more, please send me an email teaching me more about marriage because I want to
learn more.
Shalom peace to your household from the Prince of Peace.
For the Restoration of the bride of YESHUA.
In the Love of YESHUA.
Glory to the King of Glory, YESHUA Hamashiach.
The City of The King.
Note:
Unless otherwise indicated the verses from the Bible are in "light blue" and taken from the translation called "The King
James Version 1769", the literal translations are in "dark blue", the Name YESHUA has been kept in his original Hebrew
form, the Greek word Christos has been kept as Messiah his real meaning.
(*) The expression
"the LORD" has been kept also in his original form of four Hebrew
letters, in English Yhuh where "U" is a "long U", this is
the transliteration of the Hebrew letter "Vav", that YESHUA in His
big mercy has revealed to us was the old way of pronouncing.
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